Consider this your wake up call: if your kids are over the age of 2, certainly the age of 4, it is time to retrain your brain. It’s time to start listening to the inner rumblings of your soul, of your inner warrior. What is she trying to tell you?
As an adult, I am independent. It is not up to my husband, my father, or my mother to make me happy or provide for me. I am in charge of that. There was no knight in shining armor coming to rescue me. I don’t need one. I have me and I am a warrior.
These 3 “rules” come up time and time again in my relationships. If I’m triggered by something, it’s usually because I’m doing (or not doing) one of these 3 things.
You are in charge of creating your life. There is no knight in shining armor. No one is coming to save you. No one is coming to fix things. You are the adult in your life and you are responsible for your experience here on earth.
Why do we stop setting goals? Because we think “we’re happy enough”. We’ve hit all the targets: kids, house, husband, job… Who are we to ask for more? WHO ARE YOU NOT TO?!?!?
Uh….wait a second. Who are you not to ask for more? You are here to evolve. You have done a wonderful job living so far, right? Yay you! Seriously, everything you’ve done and accomplished has been for a reason but that doesn’t let you off the hook. You have many, many more years to live and many, many more things to accomplish.
